ex's who claim to be sooo hurt......

I find it qiute interesting that ex boyfriends always want to randomly talk to you out of the blue and claim that everything that ever happened between the two of you that was bad should just be forgotten because he wants to be with you again. I had an ex contact me and tell me that he just couldn't be himself without me by his sid, when in all honesty, he broke up with me and told me to forget that I'd ever known him, as if to say F*CK YOU!.. and its quite sad really that when I told him that I was currently in a committed and very prosperous relationship, he got mad and once again told mr to F8uck off, so I ask myswlf, how "hurt" was he????
Did he think feeding me so cheap stupid line about being hurt would make me take him back, well to his surprise it didnt work... mainly beacause I know he's no good for me or to me... smh...